Saturday, September 23
Confirmation Informational meeting
3-4pm, Life Center
Candidate and parents
Enrollment Mass
4pm Mass
Candidate and parents, sponsors welcome if known
Sunday, October 29
Confirmation Sponsor Selection form due
Saturday, November 11
Confirmation Sponsor Breakfast
8:30am Mass
9am, Life Center and Church
Candidate and sponsor
Monday, January 8
Letters to Father Joe requesting Confirmation Due
Sunday, January 28
Confirmation Saint Forms Due
Sunday, February 25
Confirmation Service Forms Due
Saturday, March 9
Confirmation Retreat
Registration begins following the 8:30am Mass
Ends after the 4pm Mass
Candidates only
Sunday, April 14
Confirmation Practice
11:30am, Life Center and Church
Candidates and sponsor
Tuesday, April 16
Rite of Confirmation
7pm, Church
Candidates, sponsors, and families
Saturday, March 9
NET Ministries will be coming to Our Lady for a full day retreat that will begin at 9am and will end following the 4pm Mass. The retreat is for candidates only, however, sponsors and families are welcome to join them for Mass.
The cost of the retreat is $50 per student.
CANDIDATE LETTERS AND INTERVIEWS
Beginning in January, candidates will be writing letters to Father formally requesting Confirmation (specifics of the letters will be shared later in school and PSR). Then Father Joe will be meeting with each candidate individually prior to Confirmation. We will do our best to schedule these during the school day or during PSR for all candidates.
SERVICE EXPERIENCE FORMS
Each student should continue working on their Works of Service and reflection sheets. Make sure you keep everything together in your Confirmation binder. These should be neatly organized and ready to share with Father during your scheduled interview.
CONFIRMATION PRACTICE
Confirmation practice will take place the day before we celebrate the Confirmation Rite. Once we have our Confirmation date and time from the diocese, we will schedule practice. Please note that all candidates and sponsors are required to attend practice.
RITE OF CONFIRMATION
Tuesday, April 16, 2024
7pm, Church
Candidates and sponsors must meet in the Life Center by 6:30pm.
Confirmation sponsors must be people who fully live out their Catholic faith, who will model the roles of priest, prophet, and king and inspire you with ways to practice these roles too. Don’t forget to consider your baptismal godparents. Because of the connection between Baptism and Confirmation, a godparent often makes a wonderful Confirmation sponsor. Spend some time in prayer and consider discussing your ideas with your parents. They can help you decide who to ask.
Choosing a sponsor whose witness is empowered by the Spirit is an important part of Confirmation formation. Ideally, Confirmation sponsors act as mentors—role models in the faith—inviting you into greater participation in the life of the Church.
The guidelines for sponsors are outlined in the Code of Canon Low, Canons 892 and 893. They are:
As you begin to think about who to ask, you will want to consider these questions:
Once you have selected a sponsor, please have them complete the Confirmation Sponsor Selection form and return it to the parish office.
Confirmation Sponsor Selection Form
Please note that if a sponsor is from another parish they must also have the Confirmation Sponsorship Form completed by their home parish and sent to our parish office.
Your name gives you an identity; it tells others who you are. When you were born and baptized, your parents chose your baptismal name – your first and middle names. If you do not know why your parents chose your name, ask them – there is probably a story!
The tradition of taking on a new name to show a new role can be traced back to the Old Testament. When Abram was called to lead his people to believe in the one God, his name was changed from Abram, meaning “father of many” to Abraham, meaning “father of many nations.” This continues in the New Testament when Simon’s name was changed to Peter, meaning “rock” because he was to become the rock upon which Jesus founded His Church.
Now that you are about to begin your own new role through the sacrament of Confirmation, it is time for YOU to choose the name you will take as a sign of your growth in faith. You could focus on the link with your Baptism by using your baptismal name for your Confirmation or you could choose a different name that reflects the person you’d like to become. Talk to family, friends, your sponsor, and everyone about how they chose their Confirmation name. Do research online following the links below. In the process, you will learn more about biblical heroes and saints: people who lived the Catholic faith fully, whose lives gave a prophetic witness to the truth. This could be a saint’s name or the name of a model Christian person whom you admire – a grandparent, family friend, etc.
Your Confirmation name should reflect your new role as a mature Christian. Perhaps you would like to take the name of a person whom you admire. Many Confirmation candidates, recognizing the growing bond of love with their family and take a parent or grandparent’s name. Please remember that your confirmation name must be a Saint’s name, a variation of that name or a Holy name. In addition, you can only choose one name.
Here are a few good web sites for browsing when choosing your Confirmation name:
Catholic On-Line: https://www.catholic.org/saints/
Catholic Information Online: http://www.cin.org/saintlink.html
RCL Benzinger: http://saintsresource.com/saints-index-alphabetical
Sisters of Carmel Patron Saint Index: https://www.sistersofcarmel.com/catholic-patron-saint-index/
Remember, in choosing a saint:
Confirmation names must be chosen and submitted online here by January 28, 2024 or before.
Works of Service
When a child is baptized in the Catholic Church their parents and godparents take on the baptismal promises on behalf of their child. Later, at Confirmation, the Confirmandi renew those promises themselves. As baptized Christians, we are all called to bear witness to the Christian faith in words and deeds – this means that what we say and what we DO must reflect that we are followers of Jesus. In preparing for Confirmation, our students will be tasked with working to follow Jesus’ model of service.
Amen, I say to you, whatever you did for one of the least brothers of mine, you did for me. -Matthew 25:40
This model of service is a central theme of our faith, therefore an important part of formation for the sacrament of Confirmation for our students is learning to dedicate their time and talent to others. During this final year of Confirmation formation, students will learn more about the Corporal and Spiritual Works of Mercy and perform works of service in their family, parish, school and community. Instead of focusing on a set number hours, the goal is for students to experience the joy of serving others. The Sacrament of Confirmation is freely given as a gift from our Church, the Church instituted by Jesus Christ. The Sacraments can never be earned by a set number of service hours. We feel that as our students grow in their love for Jesus, their natural reaction will be a desire to go out and serve in the world.
We know that for some students it might be easier to begin the service journey close to home. So we ask teens to begin serving in their families and our greater parish family this summer. This could be service at home, in their neighborhood or in our parish.
Below are some examples of works of service in your family, neighborhood or parish. We ask students to complete at least one work before the meeting in September.
Serving in your family, neighborhood and parish ideas – complete at least one
Remember service is freely given, not something you are paid to do. These should be tasks YOU initiate. Ask your family, neighbors what you can do to help them. Read the bulletin or ask in the parish office for opportunities to help your parish family.
Service in your family or neighborhood
Service in your parish family
Corporal Works of Mercy Ideas – Complete at least two
Feed the Hungry
Give Drink to the Thirsty
Bury the Dead
Clothe the Naked
Shelter the Homeless
Clothe the Naked
Shelter the Homeless
Visit the Sick
Visit the Imprisoned
Corporal Works of Mercy Reflection Sheet
Spiritual Works of Mercy Ideas – Complete each one
Counseling the Doubtful
Instructing the Ignorant
Admonishing the Sinner
Comforting the Sorrowful
Forgiving Injuries
Bearing Wrongs Patiently
Praying for the Living and the Dead